Friday, May 27, 2011

The Store

Hey! How ya doin? Just swinging by with a little story from daily life here . . .

I (Mary) sent someone to the store this week to buy a case of flour (12 1kg pkts), a small pkt of salt (250mg) and 4kg of beans. He called from the store, which by the way is not called “the store” here. “The Store” is actually your storage place—like a garden shed or garage—an appropriate name for the place you store things. Here, “the store” as in a grocery store, is called a “shop”. So, back to the store-y :) . . . he called from “the shop” to say that I had not sent enough money to get a case of flour and the other items. So, I revised the order to 2 1kg pkts of flour, 1 pkt of salt and 4kg beans.

Let me just say one word and those of you who have lived in foreign countries for a good amount of time will laugh----- C-O-M-M-U-N-I-C-A-T-I-O-N. Where does the breakdown occur??? In what I said? Yes. In what he heard? Yes. In what a person in this culture normally buys in salt content that I know NOTHING of??? Yes, apparently.

He returned home and gave me the change while I was teaching in the banda with the kids. We went on with what we were doing. He left. Two hours later we took a break and I went into the kitchen and saw on the counter SEVEN 500mg packets of salt, 6 1kg pkts of flour, and the beans! WHAT AM I GOING TO DO WITH 3 1/2 kg of salt????????? I started laughing! Someone nearby giggled and said, “well, at least it’s not expensive!!” She’s right, of course, but that is not the point. Just because it’s cheap doesn’t mean I need to buy it!! I didn’t even try to talk to the person who ran the errand that day for fear I would bust out laughing. Yesterday I finally asked why he bought 7 pkts. He replied that in his little village when you give the shopkeeper 2,000 shillings they give you 4 pkts of salt, but in the village he shopped in for me he was surprised that 2,000 shillings gets you 7 pkts. The whole time he was talking I'm sure I had a surprised look on my face--just for different reasons than his! (At this point I decided it might be worth remembering that perhaps salt is commonly bought in 2,000 shilling increments.) I had said nothing about buying 2,000 shillings worth, only that I wanted 1 pkt. Without realizing it, he immediately translated in his mind from 1 pkt to 1 group of pkts worth 2,000 shillings. You’re all probably bored at this point, but I find it fascinating that I have lived here for 5 years next week and I still have so little clue sometimes as to what constitutes normal daily life around here!

As we come up on our 5 year anniversary on June 5th we are looking back as well as looking forward. We have learned so much and changed so much, but we still have so far to go!!!! Obviously!!!!!

We took a short trip to Entebbee last week and found ourselves at the same guest house as fellow New Hope missionaries, The Zimmerman's. Now that was a FUN surprise!!!

P.S. Anybody need any salt???

Friday, May 20, 2011

"Home Assignment"



Tonight we said goodbye to our dear friend and David Family Associate, Nancy. She is

going home to the U.S. for 5 months. It's hard to believe that it was one year ago this weekend that we left Uganda for our 5 month leave in the U.S. Going "home" is such an interesting time in the life of a missionary. So many emotions. While looking forward to "rest" from the many cultural challenges and the "work", the reality is that "rest" can sometimes be hard to achieve. There will be many visits, speaking engagements, presentations and detailed explanations to give on the nature of our work here. However, amidst all of that is the joy of seeing dear friends and family and spending time reconnecting with them. Pray with us as we pray for Nancy's time at "home." I set that apart with quotes because the longer we live in another country, the more it becomes home to us. Leaving one home to be home in another place is always a mixed bag. You're never fully home no matter where you are because parts of you are scattered among the places and people that are dear to you. Thank you for your prayers for us and for Nancy. Actually, this seems to be a year filled with many on home assignment. Since January we've been saying goodbye each month to dear friends and co-workers. One just returned this week and others will be returning throughout the year, but most of them will be away until next January. Numerous and frequent Hellos and Goodbyes are a huge part of being a missionary!!!!!

Wednesday, May 18, 2011

Ends and Beginnings
















This week marks the end of holiday for Ugandan schools before the kids return next Monday for 2nd term. I usually have a long "to-do" list and hopes for what I will accomplish during the holiday. My wishes vary from academic pursuits with my own three kids to visiting relatives with our David Family kids to spending more time just talking to kids that live on site here at Kasana Children's Centre. And usually, at the end of the holiday, the list of what I actually accomplished looks very different from what I originally set out to do!!! (The dog, on the other hand, has a very short "to do" list and usually consists mainly of the above.)



This holiday season yielded very little academic time with my own three, though we still attempted school a couple days a week. Not only had I shortened our school day from finishing at 1 p.m. to finishing at 10:30 a.m., but many days the unexpected jumped in to take even that short amount of time. At the beginning of the holiday sicknesses and even the death of one of our primary school teachers took precedent over regular schedules for several days.




























Two weeks ago was the youth camp here in which a number of our children who are now young adults, planned and executed a program for 140 youth! We hosted a dear friend and former staff member one night as he was a featured speaker the next day at the camp. The following days both Geoff and I spoke at different times. VERY ENJOYABLE, though it kept us busier than our usual schedules.









Geoff meets with some of the leaders of the youth camp. Though Geoff provided guidance and wisdom, the young men planned and executed the entire program.


Last week was pleasantly crammed full of visiting relatives. On Monday I went to visit with one of our daughters at her Aunt's home. Tuesday I spent all day (6 a.m. - 10 p.m.) away from home as I traveled with one of our daughters to Mulago Hospital for some medical tests. After we finished at the hospital she got to visit with one of her older brothers who works in town. Wednesday I spent most of the day being "house girl" in addition to my usual teacher and mom roles. The wonderful lady who helps in our house 4 days a week had been sick for a number of days which meant I was doing more than my usual share of the cooking, cleaning and housework, plus trying to keep up with what I normally try to check off my list for one day! On Thursday morning I went with yet another daughter to visit her grandmother. It was a great visit and we got some pictures which we'd been planning on taking for more than a year now. Grandma seems to be aging a bit quicker these days and a picture of her before she is gone is sooooooooooo important to this daughter! On Friday we were back at Mulago to finish up some tests we had started on Tuesday. Whew!


My main disappointment when I look back over these last 3 weeks is that I didn't get to accomplish all that I wanted to accomplish academically with Toby especially. Being that he is in the primary a few hours each day, I had planned to catch up on his history and math lessons, but as you can see from the above paragraphs, it didn't happen. It's comforting to know that he is ahead of his agemates, so not too many worries there. The positive of the sum of the holiday is that we've spent some good time with different ones in David Family. Some one on one time has happened in some cases and some good group times have also been a blessing.

Tonight we are starting a movie on the life of Mother Teresa. It is a LONG movie, so we'll split it into two nights of viewing. It will be great to have the kids crammed into our living room yet again!!!



On Friday night we will have a huge feast as we say farewell to Nancy Kirsch, our fellow David Family Associate. She will be on home assignment in the U.S. from this weekend through October. She has served faithfully and loved the kids for more than 12 years here at New Hope. It is a pleasure and an honor to send her off FULL of Ugandan food and love. :) It will be a great time for her to be in the states and we ask you to pray for her during this time of rest. She will be visiting family, friends and churches during the next few months and we desire that her time with others will rejuvenate and bless her. She is a joy to serve with here at New Hope!!!!!

Saturday, May 14, 2011

Our rowdy kids who love to dress up and goof around . . .



This is the lovely grandmother of one of our David Family daughters. She and I (Mary) went for a visit on Thursday. She kept us laughing!!!


We are so thankful to God for His hand on the life of this daughter. She is a testimony to His goodness and love to those who will trust Him.







Acacia and her little kitty, Brandy









Our older youth put on a youth camp last week. Both Geoff and I spoke at different times and we were very impressed with the kids' ability to pull off a quality program!!! Here are a few of our David Family kids getting ready for "Weird Night" in which they dress in crazy garb and try to win the prize for the weirdest outfit.






























Monday, May 2, 2011

The Fort

In our recent monsoon-like storms we have lost many trees and bananas. Everywhere you go there is evidence of the devastation. The kids capitalized on the destruction for their creative advantage and made the most glorious tree house/fort you could imagine. As the days have gone by, the banana leaves have dried and the felled trees been stripped of most of their leaves (due to climbing children!!), so yesterday Geoff and I went to see their creation before it was completely gone.

Stella and Acacia staking their claim



Kevin, Jesse, Acacia and Joshua climbing on felled limbs




Jesse and Kevin enjoy their hiding place


















Jesse--King of the fort